It took me 31 years to realise things change an dnot always to the things we want them too. Since I got into university, at the age of 16, I started getting more aware of my shyness. When I was younger I never really had to deal with it even though it was there and my Dad would constantly point it out in not so empathetic ways. But as I got oldder, started to mingle with more and more people from all walks of life, got away from the protective nest that was my family, childho